Admittedly, I’m writing this post not to give you a false perception that I’m super woman or the chick version of Captain Amazing – more so to show you that even though I’ve always been strong, I’m completely and utterly vulnerable.  Just like everyone else. Not only am I vulnerable – I’m also petrified.  And I know that it’s silly and that she’ll be just fine … but even still – as a mom that fear of “what if” is crippling.

You see, my little one – Dami, hasn’t been feeling quite right.  She’s been complaining about headaches for a while – it was sporadic [no noticeable pattern], but always in the same spot in the back of her head when I asked here where it hurt.  In the past few months I’ve noticed her running into stuff, falling easily, walking like she drank a bottle of wine and I chalked it up to growing, becoming lanky, and starting that whole awkward stage.   Lately though, the headaches are coming every week, along with dizziness.  She would stand still and start swaying in circles or going back and forth.  Then her belly would hurt and on occasion, she’d vomit too. [TMI - Sorry.]

Enough was enough and after this weekend’s report from her dad’s house, and Monday mornings’ bout of swaying, and an evening filled with dizziness,  I called the pediatrician.  They got us in fairly quickly and by Tuesday at 4:00 she was being seen.  The doctor examined her and did some preliminary tests to check her balance.  She ran up and down the hall, walked on her tiptoes, walked on her heels, etc.  She said she did as well as she would expect for a child who just turned seven.  However, because of the headaches and a family history of migraines and brain tumors – the doctor  has ordered an MRI with sedation for Dami.

This wasn’t an easy decision to make.  I absolutely HATE the idea of having her be sedated, but I knew in my heart that there was NO way she’d lay down for that test, when she’s already afraid of loud noises and I can’t be in that room holding her hand.  The doctors goal is to rule out anything bad and go from there.  I’d be lying it I told you I haven’t been uncontrollably crying since last evening.   But you know how it is – expect the worst and pray for the best.

Her MRI is scheduled for this Friday at 11:40 a.m.  If you’re the praying type – we’d certainly appreciate them.  If you’re not – good vibes are just as awesome.  I promise to update you guys somehow.

To those of you whose sessions/weddings I am working on – I’m working on them, I promise.  I may need an extra couple of days but when she’s not snuggling with me, my hand is on my mouse and I’m plugging away.  She is my main priority and she needs her momma.  I will be in touch with you soon too!  Thanks so much for your support and love.  It’s so appreciated at this time (and always).

Susan and Dan’s wedding was nothing short of amazing.  The details – were amazing and the Chevelle was swoon-worthy.  When I got to the church, their were no nerves, just excitement.  Then, I met Rudy.  During our pre-wedding consult we talked about couples incorporating their dogs into their weddings.  They both perked up – especially Susan, who’s a Vet Tech.  So when I got the word that Rudy was coming – and he’ll be dressed for the occasion, my excitement level grew ten-fold.  (Boston Terrier in a bow tie?  Gah!)  Their wedding day was absolutely perfect.

PS.  Super special thanks to my good friend, Sarah Bardo for helping me out at this wedding.  Xo.

These two are getting married next May and it’s sure to be amazing.  We chatted about wedding plans, laughed a lot, and played games with Dominic. Seriously love these three and cannot WAIT until next spring.

There’s a saying around my office – it doesn’t rain when Melania shoots a wedding.  I will admit, it got close on Devon and Kevin’s day (it only spritzed for about 20 minutes during their first look). Devon and I even joked around that morning about wearing galoshes during the wedding.  ;)  Devon and Kevin’s day was amazing.  The details were flawless and so very “Devon and Kevin”.  The day itself was emotionally packed, especially when Kevin saw her for the first time.  They held hands, smiled until their cheeks went numb and tears streamed down their faces.  It was just what they needed to set their nerves at ease.  Devon looked more gorgeous than ever – while Kevin totally worked it in his suit.  It was a wedding I will never forget.

Congratulations again, Devon and Kevin.  Love you both.  Special thanks to my good friend, Jane Ammon for joining me on this fabulous wedding day.

Krystle and Chris had an amazing day.  And while Weather Bug kept going off in my shoot sac, telling me a severe thunderstorm was overhead, we didn’t see a drop of rain.  [Because, it doesn't rain when Melania shoots weddings.]  ;)  Their ceremony featured a beautiful wine ceremony and the grounds of the club were immaculate.  Oh, and while the sun came out, for all of 10 minutes, we quickly ran outside and took advantage of its sweet, sweet light.  :)

Congratulations again, you two.  Thanks for allowing me to be a part of your day.

Vendors:
Venue: Golden Oaks Country Club
DJ: DJ Slamm
Florist: Strogus Flowers
Bakery: Christie’s Memorable Cakes